What about a Blue jay? 

I personally have not worked with the blue jay. What would come to me in thinking about them would be their song. How clear their music is to the ears. That and the color blue. Combine the two it would seem clear vision, clear communication would be the major gifts. Messages could be are you pausing to listen so that you can communicate what you feel, hear, see? or why did you stop singing (using your voice authentically)? As said I have not personally worked with blue jays but that is what I would see / feel 

Do you know why Ravens seem to follow me everywhere......they are always around almost like a trusted friend......I walk dogs and the ravens are there....outside my home there are almost always ravens in the tree above calling.....I work at a school, and inevitably, I will go out to do lunch duty, and at least one or two are there......they just seem to follow and watch.....any idea what that might mean? 

Ravens most often are seen as wisdom keepers. They are scavengers and one of the most curious birds, which leads to the wisdom they collect. See they are considered to be shape-shifters that allow them to “see” without being seen. So my first question would be what is it that you are not “seeing” in your life that needs to be “seen” ? What truth are you not aligning with? I would say that you have a life purpose that you are not following – perhaps healing of some sort. 

Question: Do you by chance know what a vision of three wolves could mean? I've had this unexplainable obsession with wolves my whole life and just recently had an unforgettable vision of three wolves..... For some reason I have the feeling that it's a message from a baby who is waiting to come into our lives.....

First let me share my perception on meanings of visions and journeys. Whether the messages or a specific vision are coming from the winds, the flames, a journey, an animal spirit, or from a guide, it always boils down in essence to what are your symbols and translations not what someone else interprets them as. An example for instance, you have a journey and the only thing that is perfectly clear to you is the color blue. What does that mean? Blue skies, blue waters, cold, or blue in your throat chakra? Depending on what you perceive through your experiences will determine what the meaning is to you. So the key is to learn your translations. Not mine. Not some books. But yours. 

Wolves in general represent loyalty and strength. They are communicators. Contrary to popular opinion, they are very social (pack nature) beings. So to see three together, to me, it would suggest building of a “pack”. The question may be do you trust? Are you being loyal? Are those around you trustworthy? Loyal? The number three itself is representative of a new adventure that will be successful. So add in the number with the wolves could mean an addition to life path that will need help from others. Do you see how all of this can play into the translation of a vision?

You mention your instinct is a baby coming into your path. Remember that it can be metaphorical as well. So a baby can mean new project, innocence, birthing new project, etc. If it was my vision and I was trying to completely understand it for myself, I would journey and specifically ask for clarification of what this represents. Spirit guides, be it animal or otherwise, respond when we ask them for assistance.